Friends!

Have you ever wondered why when you make a new friend there has to be a motive behind it? Everyone thinks something about whats going on when in all actuality you really has just made a friend. And possibility someone who could become a close friend. A friend whether male or female is someone you can talk to and count on and have fun with. Friend does not mean I want to jump your bones and get in their pants, granted sometimes it is but why do we assume that? A relationship is someone your alot closer with, someone you trust wholeheartedly . There is a difference. I mean whats up with the double standard of oh you have a boyfriend/girlfriend you can not have friends of the opposite sex.

I personally have always had a close guy friend who was not my boyfriend. Its easy to take to them, and plus there not catty and dramatic like most girls. I think the judgments need to be ended. Im not just talking about though girls/guys who have partners Im talking about everything. Like when you start to hang out with someone more and all of a sudden the other friend is jealous or mad.

Life is too short to make things this complicated. Real friends are hard to come by. And when your someone like me and dont make friends easy because your nervous and have trust issues its nice when you find new friends. Is that not what Im suppose to be doing in college anyways.

This has been on my mind alot lately. I feel like in the past month or two I have began to make friendships. And I feel like every time I turn around someone has something new to say about my friendships.Im really just a person with a big heart and Im willing to open it but jeez people wonder why I dont do it often. This is why.

These are the people who stand by you no matter what happens and will always be by your side. Im sorry to my newer friends who didnt get a picture on here, it may just be I dont have a good picture of us.